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Originally Posted by jlodarl
Thank you Mr. josephdc!!! Yep heard that book... im gonna get one soon...
I think it will be a challenge for me too, to have my own mission statement.. thats why I keep asking about myself what I really want... and having hard time to figure it out,really...
I set goals and make it happen like landing a dream job.. been to lots of great job that anyone will envy of, but later I don't want it anymore, im not happy.. I try lots of activities like sports, I even enrolled with another course then stop, and more activities.
I think you're right writing and reading it everyday and do something about it might help me... Maybe taking down notes will make me realize or evaluate what I really want in life...
I have one more question,this might be the answer for everything but im not really sure if this is really what I want or I justt don't want to admit it myself. I just want you to help me please evaluate or give me some "opinions or whatever it is called... I been working for years, started like 14 years old and still working until now.. My lifestyle is way far than before.. I can get whatever I want but im not that really materialistic.. (in short I don't have problem with money). I was thinking that maybe Im ready to get married? coz when I was in college my dream is just to be a housewife and a mother with a career.. until now I keep thinking about it more and more..... like everyday.. I think but not sure that's what I really want.I envy to women with babies, even I just saw a baby clothes, just stuff like that. I think I'll be happy with that and contented.. what do you think?
Thanks again Sir!
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You can be happy now!
Without all those things you mentioned.
Just get rid of the word "IF"
This word is the unhappy word.
"I would be happy IF I have kids".
"I would be happy IF I have a husband".
The reality is if you keep using that word (IF) you will never be really happy.
I tell you you can be happy right there where you are, if you get rid of the word-if.
Don't get envy with others. Count your blessings.
You have strengths and things others do not have.
Be appreciative of what you have right now.