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Originally Posted by Soul Doctor
Thanks JosephDc.
Josephdc is right about being an effective person.
It is important to set goals and follow through on that goals.
Then assess your goal on how far have you accomplished these goals.
Although it is not as simple as that all the time.
Sometimes it is because of our childhood experiences.
Sometimes it is because of our birth year.
Sometimes it is because of our vices and other things.
Sometimes it is because of lack of self discipline.
Sometimes it is because you wanted to do so many things
that you lose the energy to finish what you started.
The key is focus.
Focus on the priority goals.
Try to prioritize which goal is more important to you.
Check if these goals are realistic enough to accomplish.
Start with the smaller goals and work your way to the bigger goals.
Have the self-discipline to finish what you started.
I could explain further if you answer these things.
1.Did you grow up without a father?
2.Are you and only child?
3.How old are you?
4.Are you rich?
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Sir, I grew up with a father but like stranger since I was a kid until now, didnt feel the love and care of a father. I live away from my family for years now and I like it that way.. I am the eldest of the 5 siblings. Im 25. Not really rich but I can have whatever I want.
As I have said to Mr. josephdc been to great jobs but later I get bored, lose interest and unhappy. It's maybe because when I get home I feel empty and lonely.. what I want (but not sure) is that when I go home there's someone there that would take care or make me feel Im loved or kids that will run around the house.. make noise.. thats what I always imagine...
Im in a long distance relationship for 5 years now but I know he is not ready yet.. and it seems the fire is dying... so I really don't know ... I don't know where I belong...
Thanks SOUl_DOCTOR!!!