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Old 08-13-2008, 05:56 PM
simply_wife
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why not try to have a cool off with him and take time to think and find yourself..(easily said than done, i know it is not that easy)

wag kang magpa-slave for that kind of love, women deserves to be respected and loved,
we are not created to be their servant, punching bag and slaves. sometimes, guys are fond
of hurting us because we allow them to do so..

as i see your situation, you gave too much of yourself to your boyfriend which should not be.
kailangan di lang sa boyfriend mo umiikot ang mundo mo kc when in times like that, sino malalapitan mo?
if you focused only on your bf, para kasing all your happiness depends on him.

you know what, i was once in your situation but i realized na, i should have my set of friends too,
have time for my family and for myself. all of us have indifferences, and if both of you are in-love
with each other, you'll accept it. i married the same guy and we're happy now.

a relationship is always a 50/50, a give and take process. if the other gives her 75% and the other is just 25%, d na sya balance dba? and the other one is no longer happy though the love is there.

if you're truly meant with each other, let it be but in God's time!
remember that we're created by God through His image and likeness, that is why every person should be treated nicely..

just don't forget to pray to God, lift everything to Him and He will guide you..

i hope this helps... God bless!
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