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Originally Posted by lady_yan
I really appreciate all the inputs you have posted here. i also have my own sets of questions about life and people in general, and here are some:
1. why do people keep on making the same mistakes? (aside from not really learning from their previous mistakes)
2. is there such thing as true love between human beings?
3. why do people give good advices to other people's problems but can't give themselves good advices?
4. is there such thing as karma?
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One question at a time lang ta ha!
Q:
1. Why do people keep on making the same mistakes?
(aside form not really learning from previous mistakes)
If you keep making the same mistakes this is because you have not valued whatever it is you are doing.
You never put much weight to it, to be consciously aware of not making mistakes.
Maybe there are no heavy consequence to those mistakes.
This is the reason why it is important to punish kids when they intentionally made mistakes.
I don't believe in the juvenile court system.
It does not discipline our young offenders,
they only provide excuses-
- such as: they are too young to face the real consequence.
So, if a person make the same mistakes over and over
this is because there are no heavy consequence as punishment for committing those mistakes.
For example, akong anak magsigeg duwa og computer games unya dili mosulod og class.
Kung kasab-an lang nako, padayon ra gihapon na siya sa iyang bisyo.
Nahitabo ni nako ug sa akong eldest daughter sa USC-TC.
So akong gibuhat after 3rd offense, siya na akong gipalaba sa iyang mga sinina except uniform.
Pero, padayon gihapon siyag duwa during class, kay apparently addicted na siya sa Dota.
So, hasta iyang uniform siya na ang akong gipalaba.
Padayon pa gihapon siya sa iyang bisyo.
Ako na lang gipaundang sa eskwela.
So wala na siyay allowance para iduwa og Dota.
Didto na siya nangita og trabaho.
Later nidecide na siya nga moeskwela og tarong.